Meet The Team
Kristy Stonehill
Affiliate Leader and
Program Coordinator
- Board of Directors
Kristy came to NAMI in 2021 when her daughter developed a psychotic disorder. Kristy quickly realized how lonely and isolating the world of mental illness can be. NAMI gave her hope in a hopeless situation. She has found a second home within her local NAMI affiliate and is able to fulfill her passions while helping others.
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Kristy has previous non-profit experience working as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) staff person in two different states. She also has served as a Guardian ad litem and a CASA volunteer.
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A mediator and advocate at heart; Kristy tries to treat every individual with respect, kindness and empathy.
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Kristy is a NAMI trained and certified Family Support Group Facilitator. She is also trained and certified as a Crisis Intervention Team (CIT) Coordinator
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Community Events and Fundraising Coordinator
- Vice-President
Trina Gilbert
Trina found NAMI through an In Our Own Voice (IOOV) presentation in 2017 - after her second stay at Lady Sunshine House. Once on her feet, she joined NAMI to give back to her community and to learn more about her own mental health struggles.
Since joining NAMI, Trina has been trained and certified as a facilitator for the Connections Recovery Support Group, IOOV, and Peer to Peer (P2P).
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"I am a grandma who enjoys the outdoors and planting gardens. I have a love of helping others.
I have a desire to become a Certified Peer Recovery Specialist in the near future.
I always try to think and be positive, I know there was a time that I could only live minute by minute."
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~ Trina Gilbert
Jonathan Windsor
Director of Communications and Marketing
- Board of Directors
Jonathan joined NAMI in 2025 to help ensure that families affected by mental illness are heard, validated, and supported, and to work toward a future where no one is left behind by a broken system.
His advocacy is supplied by growing up with a parent living with severe mental illness, providing him with personal insight into the challenges families face within a fragmented mental health system.
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A graduate of the University of Mary Washington and a communications and marketing professional, Jonathan channels both his lived experience and his skills in digital strategy and storytelling into NAMI Rappahannock’s mission.
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Outside of NAMI, Jonathan is the Chair of Public Relations and a member of the Board of Directors for Kiwanis of Fredericksburg. He also works full-time as a Marketing Specialist.
Chuck Grey
- Board of Directors
Chuck brings a no nonsense approach to our team and we are ever so thankful for his service.
Chuck is a librarian by day and enjoys reading and listening to music.
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"I volunteer with NAMI because I deal with mental illness personally and I want to do even the little I'm capable of to help others. Life is up and down for me, but I've learned to accept that and embrace the moments of stability. "
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~ Chuck Gray
Elaine Arnold
Fundraising Chair
- Board of Directors
Elaine has been devoted to NAMI for over two and a half decades. She has facilitated support groups, led presentations, overseen our fundraising to include NAMI Walks, she has handled membership, been a point of contact for those in our community - day and night - and given hope to so many. We are honored to have her as an advisor to our affiliate.
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​Elaine balances her time between the Rappahannock region and North Carolina. She remains dedicated to our affiliate and community regardless of where she spends her personal time.